Ridgewood, NJ
When Haksung and his family moved from South Korea to the U.S. a year ago, they faced the challenges of adapting to a new culture and language. Then came the unexpected. Haksung was diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia (AML).
His concern wasn’t for himself, but for his family. He worried about how they would manage without him, especially his 14-year-old daughter. She was struggling with anxiety from the culture shock.
Now, they all faced an uncertain future together.
Despite fatigue, Haksung continued working part-time from home to keep his family afloat. But his income was cut in half, he was consumed with worry about providing for them. How would he afford to keep food on the table? How would they cover the transportation back-and-forth to the hospital?
That’s when the Icla da Silva Foundation stepped in. We provided critical support to help Haksung prepare for his bone marrow transplant. They literally had nowhere else to turn. Thanks to the generosity of our donors, we were able to grant funds for gas and groceries, which were essential during his treatment.
Finding a donor match proved difficult due to his ethnicity, but in an incredible turn of events, his daughter was a match. Even though she was only 14, and battling anxiety, she donated her stem cells to save her father’s life.
Haksung’s journey is far from over, but thanks to the support he received, he feels hopeful. “Your program gives me hope for our future. Thank you.”
You Can Help a Patient Like Haksung
Haksung’s story is just one example of the many families who face overwhelming challenges while battling blood cancer. Your generosity can make a difference. Donate today to help provide critical assistance to a patient like Haksung and give them hope for a brighter future.
Thanks for reading.
Written by: Bret Itskowitch
Four Words No Parent Ever Wants to HearGoodyear, AZ
If you’re a parent, you probably remember when your child had an ear infection. It’s very common, but you still worry. No one wants to see their little person in pain. Usually, a warm compress, maybe a visit to the doctor, and it goes away.
Kelsey and Austen thought the same when their three-year-old daughter, Blakely, began tugging on her ear. But as their little girl’s discomfort grew, they thought it could be something more serious, so they brought her to the ER.
That visit to the emergency room turned their world upside down. Blakely was rushed in an ambulance to the main hospital, and then her Mom and Dad were told the four words that no parent ever wants to hear: “Your child has leukemia.“
Blakely was diagnosed with AML (acute myeloid leukemia).
Because of the leukemia, her ear infection turned into mastoiditis and she required a double mastoidectomy. Then she underwent several cycles of chemotherapy until she finally reached remission.
Since Blakely was considered high-risk, the doctors told Mom and Dad that a bone marrow transplant was her only chance of survival.
At first, there was hope—two perfect donor matches were found on the national registry. But that hope faded quickly when the first donor didn’t pass the medical exam, and the second one backed out.
After six months of treatment, they performed a bone marrow transplant using Blakely’s Father as the donor. Tragically, the cells didn’t take.
With her life hanging in the balance, they tried one last option. After more rounds of chemotherapy and radiation to prepare her little body, Blakely received a stem cell donation from her Mommy.
The transplant was successful.
She was three-years-old when she first went to the ER. It seemed like a lifetime had passed by the time she turned four, but now this little girl was finally able to go home.
Their journey was nothing short of terrifying. Blakely fought bravely through countless treatments while her parents battled the ups and downs of their daughters medical crisis. Daddy juggled work and caring for their older daughter at home, while her Mother stopped working to stay by Blakely’s side in the hospital.
The financial toll was overwhelming. Half of their income disappeared, while expenses dramatically increased. Thanks to support from the Icla da Silva Foundation, Kelsey and Austen were able to receive financial assistance for crucial needs during their darkest days.
Kelsey shared her grateful message with us, “Your assistance has allowed me to worry less about our loss of income and truly focus on being there for Blakely. We couldn’t have done it without the support from an amazing foundation like yours!”
You can make a difference for a little girl like Blakely, as they fight to receive a lifesaving bone marrow transplant. Your donation will provide critical support to a family who is facing the unimaginable.
Please donate and help us be there for those who need us most.
Written by: Bret Itskowitch
A Lifeline to Recovery – Everything’s Gonna Be AlrightREMOVING BARRIERS TO TREATMENT: Robert’s Story
Port Washington, WI
Bob’s world was shattered when he was diagnosed with blood cancer. He was already working two jobs to shoulder the financial burdens that included prior medical debt. His diagnosis forced him to stop working, and the looming bone marrow transplant meant he would be out of work for months.
In this critical moment, the Icla da Silva Foundation became a lifeline, stepping in to keep the lights on.
Support extended even further, providing funds for Bob to stay at Kathy’s House – a haven near the transplant center crucial for his recovery.
Bob told us that he was so grateful for the extra help. “I never wanted to ask, but the social workers convinced me. This had made all the difference.” With their worries eased, Bob can focus on his battle, and a chance to fight for his future and his family.
Bob’s t-shirt says it all, ‘Everything’s Gonna be Alright.’
We wish him a full recovery following his bone marrow transplant.
Your support can offer a family like Bob’s a fighting chance in their battle against blood cancer. Please consider making a donation that funds critical needs like lodging, meals, and transportation while a patient is in treatment to receive a bone marrow transplant.
Written by: Bret Itskowitch
Helping a New Father Fight Blood CancerREMOVING BARRIERS TO TREATMENT: Haitham’s Story
Palatine, IL
Recently, Haitham’s world overflowed with joy. He and his wife Nicole welcomed their first child, a beautiful baby boy.
Two months later, their excitement was shattered by devastating news.
A Life-Threatening Diagnosis
Haitham just wasn’t feeling right. He was struggling with fatigue and joint pain for months. Red spots suddenly appeared on his body. His wife is a Dental Hygienist; when she noticed that his gums were swollen and bleeding, she demanded he visit urgent care to get blood work.
The blood tests revealed crushing news, this new father was diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia (AML). He was recommended to receive a bone marrow transplant.
A Grueling Financial Burden
With a newborn baby at home, the physical, emotional, and financial burden of blood cancer felt insurmountable.
Haitham had not been able to work since his diagnosis. He could barely stand from the fatigue. His wife Nicole was ready to return to work following maternity leave. But now with the transplant coming, she had to switch to a part-time schedule to be his caregiver.
“Things were very difficult for me and my wife,” Haitham recalls. Just as they were on the brink of losing their home and car, a social worker at Northwestern Memorial Hospital, connected them with the Icla da Silva Foundation.
Giving Him A Fighting Chance
Through the Icla Cares program, we provided funds to ensure they could afford housing and transportation while he underwent a bone marrow transplant.
Thanks to our donors, we provided support at a critical moment in their battle against blood cancer. The grant helped keep a roof over their head and maintain their only vehicle while he was in treatment. “It gave me peace of mind,” Haitham says, “knowing we wouldn’t lose everything.”
The transplant was successful. Haitham is currently in remission and slowly recovering.
He is not yet able to return to work, but he is strong enough to care for their son while his wife is at work. We wish him a full recovery and many cherished years with their baby boy.
You Can Help
The Icla da Silva Foundation offers support and hope for a family in their battle against blood cancer. For a patient in financial crisis, we provide grants for meals, transportation, and housing while they are in treatment to receive a bone marrow transplant.
Your support empowers a patient like Haitham to focus on healing. Your donation will ensure a family has the resources they need to fight a life-threatening battle.
Please donate today.
Written by: Bret Itskowitch
No One Expects to Receive a Blood Cancer DiagnosisREMOVING BARRIERS TO TREATMENT: Cindy’s Story
Hope, ID
Cindy and her husband were enjoying retirement, but their golden years were threatened when she was diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia (AML). The only path to a cure was a bone marrow transplant, a long and arduous therapy that carries a high risk of complications. The news overwhelmed Cindy and her husband, but she was determined to fight.
Following her diagnosis, Cindy spent two critical months in the hospital.
After being approved for a transplant, they had to relocate to Seattle. Treatment is intensive and bone marrow transplant patients are required to stay within 30 miles of the transplant center in case of complications.
Her husband packed up their dog Murphy and moved in with family to be closer to the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Center.
It was a scary, challenging time. Battling her disease was compounded by the stress of mounting expenses. No one plans to receive a diagnosis of blood cancer. As a couple on a fixed retirement income, the added cost of housing, transportation, and meals while in treatment was a lot to take on. How would they get through this?
That’s when the Icla da Silva Foundation stepped in. Thanks to the generosity of donors, we provided critical funds for transportation and meals during treatment.
Cindy was grateful for the support she received.
“The assistance helped us stress less about all the bills and focus more on getting well. Having cancer is stressful enough. It’s wonderful knowing that there is an organization like the Icla da Silva Foundation to lessen the burden.”
Her transplant was successful and we wish Cindy a full recovery.
Will you help a patient like Cindy as they battle a life-threatening blood cancer? Your donation will give them hope and strength to face each day.
Please donate today.
Written by: Bret Itskowitch
Her Brother is Her HeroREMOVING BARRIERS: Mackenzie’s Story
Hoboken, New Jersey
After having dinner with some friends, Mackenzie developed stomach pains. Could it have been something she ate? The pain was so intense that she had to visit Urgent Care.
They recommended an over-the-counter acid blocker. It was probably gastritis.
But the pain didn’t go away. A few weeks passed, and eventually, she ended up in the ER.
After several rounds of bloodwork, they realized it wasn’t gastritis. Mackenzie was diagnosed with leukemia. The pain in her stomach was not from something she ate. The leukemia had spread to her stomach, which was very rare.
Chemo started immediately.
Unfortunately, it caused a reaction that put her in the ICU. Those first 34 days in the hospital were scary. Eventually, Mackenzie received full body radiation, followed by another stay in the ICU, and then a bone marrow transplant.
Obviously, no one expects to face a life-threatening disease. She went out for dinner with friends, and one month later, she was battling for her life.
Still Fighting but Full of Gratitude
Mackenzie comes from a loving, close-knit family. She has a wonderful circle of friends. They were all affected by her diagnosis and she is grateful for the love and support she received from each of them while she fought leukemia.
They were constantly sending her messages and positive thoughts to keep going. Mackenzie insists she would not have gotten through treatment without their support.
She is also thankful for the support she received from the Icla da Silva Foundation.
IclaCares Helps Patients in Their Time of Need
One month before that dinner with friends, Mackenzie lost her dream job due to a corporate layoff. Just like you and me, she was concerned about her finances, but she knew she would bounce back. She relied on savings while searching for a new job. But after a critical diagnosis, and a month in the hospital, Mackenzie was more worried about how she would get through this.
The Icla da Silva Foundation provided financial support for Mackenzie during her treatment.
I was already worried about just making it day-to-day…it was such a huge relief to have some financial support…and even the emotional support, always checking in on me.” -Mackenzie S.
She told us, “It is so helpful knowing that I have a community that is worried about me and wants me to get better. I am really appreciative of you.”
Mackenzie is grateful for all the support she received, from her family, her friends, and the Icla da Silva Foundation.
But one person stands above the others.
Her Hero
Mackenzie is truly grateful for her older brother Mike. He is her hero for donating his bone marrow and saving her life.
“I wouldn’t be here without my brother.” Mike was a 100% match for her bone marrow transplant and she will be forever thankful.
Mackenzie is in recovery but still fighting. The treatments wiped out her immune system and the new cells from her brother are working hard to repopulate and create healthy cells in her body. There are still regular chemo treatments and spinal taps to ensure no leukemia is hiding in her spine.
We are grateful that Mackenzie shared her personal story with us. We will keep in touch with her and we wish her a full recovery.
You Can Help
Many patients struggle to afford everyday expenses like food, transportation, and housing while in treatment to receive a bone marrow transplant. The IclaCares program works to get those patients the help that they need.
“When you are in treatment, the last thing you want to think about is how am I going to pay my rent.”
By donating, you can ensure that a patient has the basic necessities while they are in treatment.
Your gift will assist a patient like Mackenzie.
Please donate today.
Written by: Bret Itskowitch
Watch this brief video of Mackenzie sharing her story.
Assisting the Patient Caregiver ExperienceLas Vegas, Nevada
Every family experiences great difficulty while their loved one battles a life-threatening disease. So many lives are thrown into turmoil once a diagnosis is revealed.
In addition to heart-wrenching concerns and fear, many struggle with the financial pain of keeping it all together.
This is the story of one patient’s family.
Diagnosis and Treatment
Luis was diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia (AML).
His only hope for a cure was a bone marrow transplant. But he lived in Las Vegas where there is no transplant center, so he had to travel to Southern CA to receive care and prepare for his transplant.
Although his family comes from a modest background, they made it work for several months. Unfortunately, medical complications ensued, and they eventually exhausted their savings.
Luis’ wife Madelourdes remained with him as his caregiver.
The Caregiver Requirement
Every transplant center requires a 24/7 caregiver to help a patient during treatment and transplant. It’s required by the medical team, but the expenses are not covered by many patients insurance. The cost of housing, transportation, and meals became too much for Luis’ family.
Their only source of income came from their daughter, who was living in Las Vegas. As a single mom working two jobs, she did the best she could.
Luis’ wife slept on two chairs at her husband’s bedside.
Assisting with Lodging and Meals
The Icla da Silva Foundation assists bone marrow transplant patients and their families during a very difficult time. Through our IclaCares program, we were able to provide funds to Luis’ family for lodging and meals.
The family will use the lodging funds sporadically so his wife and caregiver Madelourdes can get a decent night of sleep and a shower every once in awhile while her husband completes treatment.
As soon as they received the news, the family called us with tears of joy. They were overwhelmingly grateful for the support we provided.
We wish Luis a full recovery.
We were happy to help this family. We only wish we could do the same for more families in their urgent time of need. No one should have to sleep between two chairs while their loved one battles a life-threatening disease.
You Can Help
Your donation will make a difference to a patient family in desperate need. Every gift, no matter the size, will help a family who has a loved one on the difficult path to receive a bone marrow transplant.
Please consider making a donation to help a patient family like Luis’.
Thanks for reading.
Written by: Bret Itskowitch
Supporting a Teenager on his Journey to a Bone Marrow TransplantREMOVING BARRIERS: Jake’s Story
Columbia Station, Ohio
Meet Jake and his sister Bella.
Jake is a brave boy who fought a difficult journey with acute myeloid leukemia (AML). After being diagnosed with this aggressive form of blood cancer, he received treatment and went into remission. But then he relapsed and urgently needed a bone marrow transplant.
Luckily, his younger sister Bella was a matching donor, and Jake received a transplant.
Throughout treatment, Jake and his family faced many hardships. These included the financial strain of his mom having to stop working, and the need to stay at a Ronald McDonald house to be close to the hospital.
During recovery, Jake experienced painful mucositis that made it hard for him to eat.
Thanks to the IclaCares program, Jake and his family received much-needed assistance with meals and groceries. Your support helped reduce some of the stress and allowed them to focus on Jake’s recovery.
Join Icla Cares by Supporting Patients and Their Families
Jake is still in recovery.
He just celebrated his 16th birthday. We wish him many healthy, Happy Birthdays in the years ahead.
You can make a difference in the life of a patient like Jake by making a donation.
Your gift provides critical assistance, including meal support during treatment. Help us continue to provide comfort and support to a patient on their journey to receive a bone marrow transplant.
Thank you.
Written by: Bret Itskowitch
PATIENT UPDATE: We love to see a patient smileBurlington, Vermont
We just received an update from a recent patient. Kristina is a single mother who was diagnosed with AML and needed support traveling out-of-state to receive her treatments.
We removed that barrier and she recently reached out with an update:
“Airam,
My sons and I were able to get out in the new snow up north during school break to do some sledding. This is the 1st time we’ve revisited this tradition since before I got sick with AML!!!
Memories made!
-Kristina
Click and watch the 0:08 video below. Listen to her laughing!!
You can make more patients smile on their journey to a cure. Please donate today.
Read our first story about Kristina, and watch her video talking about the importance of the support she received using this link.
She Passed Out in the ERREMOVING BARRIERS – LANEATER’S STORY
Longview, Texas
Laneater Johnson was working from home; she didn’t feel well all morning. On her first break of the day, she had chills that made her shake uncontrollably. She realized she had a fever, so she took some Tylenol and decided it was best to go to the emergency room.
She knew something wasn’t right; maybe it was a urinary tract infection.
After the triage assessment they give you when you visit the ER, they sent her to the waiting room to wait for a doctor, but she passed out.
Laneater was rushed to undergo all kinds of tests. They didn’t know what was wrong. She was right about having an infection, her body was septic. When the results came back, she was diagnosed with AML (acute myeloid leukemia).
She was immediately transported to Medical City Dallas to undergo 45 days of intense chemotherapy treatment.
A Long Process
She went through a long process that included many inpatient visits for continued tests and chemotherapy. Those treatments went on for about a year before they determined that she needed a bone marrow transplant.
There were no matching donors for her on the national registry, so they tested her siblings and her children.
Everyone in the family was a half-match, but her youngest daughter represented the best possible match.
In June 2022, Laneater received a blood stem cell transplant from her daughter.
Removing Barriers
Laneater was not able to work since that very first visit to the emergency room. Even after finally receiving her bone marrow transplant, she still couldn’t return home.
Since she lived more than 50 miles from the transplant center, she was required to stay nearby for continued monitoring until the hematologist released her.
Fortunately, she was released soon after.
The Icla da Silva Foundation supports patients undergoing a bone marrow or cord blood transplant. Our Icla Cares program removes barriers to treatment with emotional, logistical, and financial assistance during treatment.
Thanks to the generosity of our supporters, we were able to help Laneater with a small grant to offset lodging expenses while receiving follow-up treatment at Medical City Dallas. Her stay was shorter than expected, but that didn’t stop Laneater from showing how grateful she was to receive assistance.
“This support came when I was in dire need, I didn’t know where I was going to get the rest of the money.”
It has been a long journey, but her doctors say she is doing well. Laneater looks great, and she smiles as she tells us that she can’t wait for her hair to grow back.
Watch Laneater share her story
We have high hopes for her continued recovery.
Please consider supporting the mission of the Icla da Silva Foundation. Your donation will help more patients like Laneater. Your gift will support bone marrow patients with critical needs.
Together we will continue to make a difference.
Written by: Bret Itskowitch